Wening Mahira

I want to tell you about one man, may be he is old right now but not too old I think. He lives good, but not very good when he was a child. He was the first son in family, got him until have 4 daughters before. Because the economic condition was so bad, they need to work hard to get some money. They have a pig at that time, a kiosk sell  fried banana and bean porridge. 

He get married at 26 years old, with a kind women and patient, very patient I think. They have the same family background, not come from the rich one, must fight for this life. Same things they ever do selling things door to door. I really know them, maybe not detail about their past. I know so many things happen and his wife still patient until now.

He did so many bad things, make the people around him sad, confuse and angry. His wife leave him one day, and going back to her mom house. I don't know how, or because of what they live together again, maybe because they already have kids at that time. I'm not sure it was love. May be because until know I don't believe in love, I can say love but for sure confused about that. Good things from him, he care their kids, he doing everything to get money. But all the stuff doesn't continue because he does not diligent. 

I don't know how his wife can be very patient to face him. I just know that she always sad and only happy when she was with her kids. Her smile so beautiful. By the time all her child grow up and now some of them already got married and also have a grandchild. One more, her wife is very good in saving money. She doesn't like shopping and live simple. According to me the people surround them sometimes doesn't realize that they are exist because they live so simple. Not poor but too simple. Life's too long to wait. 

Now they have everything, house, car, good business, but still life simple and humble. But one thing not change, that man still live in the dark, with sadness and cannot accept the reality only because 30 cm land. I do not need to explain detail about this because of their privacy.  Very stubborn and ego, just think about himself. Maybe he forget he already have a big family. Hahaha...  Now is the time for the family live happy. All his kids grow up and live in a good condition, but no one have a patient like his wife to face him. Fortunately the kids choose keep silent, and doing what their daddy wants. All thing he want, always try to  talk with him, but no result. Their daddy too stubborn. He choose live in darkness, no one can help him, only himself can. Life's too short to worry. 

I don't know what life is this, happy but not. One things I learn nothings or nobody perfect. Keep humble and accept everything good or not. Keep patient and always say Thanks to God. We only can do but let God do the rest :)

Have a nice Wednesday, good  morning Life ^^